Wisdom Mondays

I recently finished reading WE HUNT THE FLAME.

Below are few inspiring lines from the book,

on Memories ,

” Tragedies happen once ,memories live them eternally.”

“We get to choose which memories to relive …You chose to relive a memory without its tainted trees ,” she said . “Memories aren’t always that bad”

On Freedom,

” Sometimes , when you live a life of captivity , trapped for so long, freedom becomes a thing to fear.”

from Hafsah Faizal’s WE HUNT THE FLAME

Chappy 19- Lockdown ..the imposed break

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If only I had more time to spend with my family !

If only I could start blogging again!

If only I could paint more often !

If only I could stay home and rest !

If only I could stay home and chill!

I had these and many more- if onlies….

And then ,this lockdown happened. All of sudden forcing me to chill and relax. The downside of this lockdown is the pandemic that COVID 19 has brought upon this world followed by an economic slowdown.

Well the first few weeks I really didn’t know what to do with all this time and staying home . The roads were empty and restaurants and cafes closed. No people on the streets, even on weekends. It was a strange feeling initially.

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It felt like a scene from a SCI FI movie. I might as well say I have wasted the first few weeks in unpreparedness. slowly I Jumped Into attending webinars, then reading books and then cooking at home instead of going out . I recently read books like JANE EYRE, 1984, THE LEAN STARTUP, MY TALL GREEN FRIENDS and THE STARBUCKS EXPERIENCE . I am currently reading Hafsah Faizal’s ‘WE HUNT THE FLAME’ .

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Slowly I am adjusting to this Lockdown. I’m also going back to painting again! And ofcourse Binge watching series . I’m Currently hooked to SCHITT’S CREEK

Coming To The Reason Why we are in this lock down . COVID19! A new strain of virus that didn’t even have a name 6 months ago.It’s scary how a microorganism that small,can bring this world to a halt.

The Best way to protect yourself and everybody around you is through social distancing. Respect and follow the guidelines shared by World Health Organization(WHO). Health care frontliners , the defence army,police, delivery guys, sanitation department andmany hidden heroes are working really hard to win over this situation.let us help them by not increasing their workloads unnecessarily . Stay home as much as you can.

By being reckless and not sticking to these guidelines we are risking other’s lives too.

Life if too precious to be thrown around like that.

Take care of each other . More so in the present circumstances. Helping one another and being kind is the key here.

Invest your time in creative things and learning something new. Are there hobbies you also wanted to get back to? How are you making the most of this lockdown ?

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Wisdom Tuesdays

After he was through laughing he said “………Get through your fears. And the world will open up.

Give in to your fears and your world will get smaller every year”.

From the amazing book on investment Rich Dad’s Guide to Investing by Robert Kiyosaki.

It’s a book on investment in simple non technical language. If you are looking to improve your financial understanding you can try this book too.

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“I just listen to what people say ” said rich Dad. “If you want to see a person’s past, present and future, just listen to his or her words “. – On the power of words

From the Robert Kiyosaki’s book Rich Dad’s Guide to Investing

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“Some women as soon as they hear no, back down fast.
They think now I have gone too far or I don’t want this to turn into a conflict.Women often have the same response to low counter offers.
‘They have asked for a lot, the other negotiator offers much less’ and they think ‘OK that will be fine I don’t want to fight about it.’
Remember, not backing down is not the same as starting a fight.” Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever’s Ask for it. An Amazing book on negotiation skill development.

Chappy 18 – Discover your Spirituality

 

Spiritual calling..

  A few years ago the phrase spiritual growth or soulful living wouldn’t get many head turns.

I can still recollect moments when people would scorn at such phrases. 

It was condidered uncool and old fashioned to talk about spirituality. As though spiritual growth is something bad.

But today things are very different. You see suddenly everybody wants to be a spiritual guru in a way a motivational coach. 

The truth is that all greatness in us stems from spirituality.

If you arent spiritually inclined and deeply rooted a sudden hurricane of bad times will wash you away in a few hours.

Relying on your financial status for your inner value is unwise. 

Especially now, in the times of most uncertainty where lay offs are rampant , inflation is rising and businesses doom every other day.

Times are changing and for the good of all of human kind, we have begun to realise how important is the word Spirituality

The words Spirituality and Religion are related but not the same. Irrespective of your religion and where you are on the belief scale, you must believe in the spiritual  existance , of you and every body . 

It’s very important to have a spiritual guide. A Guru that takes your hand and leads on the path. It can get confusing when you take up the world on your own while still tender spiritually. 

Then again finding a good guru is no joke isn’t it ? How then will you know if this is your Guru?

I apply a simple formula in my life when at cross roads-“You will never know until you try”.

So applies  in my spiritual journey.  

Even if you fail to find the right Guru at first you will eventually meet him/her . Life will take you to the right teacher. As long as your intentions are good and divine. 

Try to find deeper meaning in life . Respect life, your’s and evrbody’s around you. Value your birth into this world. Try to keep yourself grounded by meditating. Peace is inside you. That is where lies your spiritual wealth, in YOU.

My spiritual journey has been my greatest discovery. I hope you all find it too. Wishing you a marvelous journey.

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‘Wealth lures wealth as tame elephants the wild ;

wealth cannot be earned by wishful thinking ;

there can be no trade without wealth .

the man who lets the wealth that Fortune showers on him ,

sit idle , finds no happiness in this world,

nor in the next. what is he then?

A confounded fool performing a watchman’s role” says Vardhaman.

The above phrase stresses on how immense wealth can perish when constantly exploited , whereas even moderate wealth can magnify if added constantly. From the collection of the oldest known indian tales, Visnu Sarma’s ‘The Panchatantra’ (200 BC) also known as ‘The Five Treatises’ in english.

Wisdom Saturdays

“Forgetting is actually good for you , according to new research. When your brain retrieves a half forgotten memory, it is working very hard and so when you review your work , you are making very strong connections. .. .. The dendrites are right there… Some connections have faded, but when they come back on, they will be much much stronger.” Khurshed Batliwala and Dinesh Godke’s book for students ‘Ready Study Go’

Chappy 17 – Spend Time With ‘YOU’ First

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Spend time with you

Time is the most precious commodity in the world. Nothing can buy time , not even money .

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Today in our hectic lives we should value time unlike generations ago. Life was once so slow and relaxed. Today it’s all a rush. Everything needs to be done quick, if not better. Life is so fast that we hardly stop by to think. We are running on an auto pilot mode. Is that what we really want to do?

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Our friends are on online chats, our parents are on video call and our food is -THE FAST FOOD .

Yes we do need to move with our times. We can’t go at the speed of decade ago, at least not at work. We are expected to be on call 24 x 7 , even on holidays and after work hours. This kind of brings down the time we have for ourselves. That’s the tragedy.

Now with all the left over time we have to somehow manage to give some to our family, some dear friends and to our leisure, but what about us? What about spending time with our hearts and souls?

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Being attentive to what your soul is experiencing in very crucial. It’s crucial to know what you feel.

Why you feel that way and so on. How you act and how others react to your actions? Not just that but also how we react to others actions and others presence in our life.

We somehow have lost touch with ourselves in this entire process. So much that, some of us can NOT spend time alone.

You see spending time alone and being lonely are two VERY different things.

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You can be with ten people around and still feel lonely. Lonely feeling is your gut calling out to you and saying ‘SWEETY you aren’t ok’

May be it’s the wrong kind of company, may be you are running away from something, may be you aren’t confronting some deep issues. Loneliness could be so much more than just not being with others. It’s a feeling on the inside and has nothing to do with the outside world.

Being alone today is considered UNCOOL. Nothing can be this farther from the truth.

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We are in such an inebriated state of mind today, with all the gadgets and the online social world. By some means being on your known doesn’t get as many likes on social media.

It seems unpopular, boring and introvert. There is nothing wrong in being any of the three.

Spend time with yourself. Go offline. Go away on a social networking diet . You will see the change.Be observant of your actions and your feelings. Respect what your body and your guts are telling you.

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Listen and respond to them. And you will start understanding yourself better. Understanding yourself isn’t any small feet. It’s a journey, and a long one at that. The earlier you start the better you will know yourself.

The more you know yourself the more love generates inside you.

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Self- Love is the greatest gift.

Gift love!